Kid

dad: my dear, time to do homework
kid: no, no, i don't wanna

dad: why..
kid: (start crying)

dad: is the homework too hard?
kid: It's hard

dad: you just need to do more practice
kid: no... no...

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Sometimes, we as parents want the best for our kids.
We want them to succeed..

Do we push hard or do we take a deep breath and try to figure out next step?
That's the dilemma...

We probably first being kind to ourselves.  When we were young, what do we want to hear.
We probably also want to be kind for the kids.  Take a deep breath, what is the best way to do next?