Family

I just realize one thing. 

When the child was young, we usually have a nick name for him/her.
When the child becomes older, sometimes we forgot to call him the nick name.
If we still keep calling his nick name, both the parents and the kid have a warm feeling.

Wish upon the star

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I would like to keep the relationship in a family as close as possible. :)

Grade

son: Dad. I got C.
dad: scream, what.. "C".  I expect you to get an "A" or minimum B...
son: look down.. (hurting)..


Dear one,

I sometimes got anxious when thing didn't turn out the way i want it to be.
I love you, I am sorry, please forgive me, thank you.

When I got back grade back in college/high school year, I got nervous, too.

I am going to see if I can work on it.
The first thing I plan to try is:

When I feel anxious because of the grade, I will breath 3 times and tell myself 3 times.
"All is well. Everything is working for my highest good.  Out of this situation only good will come, I am save."

This will be my first experiment. 

Love

Dad

Want the best for you

My dear,

I was talking to your mom this morning. 

I am sorry that I sometimes push you to get a good grade.
I agree with your mom that as long as you put down the effort, that is good enough.

I know I want the best for you.
I think the best doesn't mean that you have to get A.
I think the best is the good attitude.
(Try your best and the rest is up to God.)

A few years ago, a friend of mine and I both try to get A in our fields.
We both fail miserably and got tinnitus.
I think we both cannot sleep when we got an F.

I want to tell you that it is ok to get bad grade as long as you put down 100%.

I love you
I am sorry
please forgive me
thank you

Love

Dad