A: You wanna give him a ride.
B: uh, uh
(lower his head)
A: why, are you busy
B: I plan to go to bookstore on Sat
A: you can go to bookstore any times
B: uh, uh
(not quite sure what to say)
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In our life, sometimes we want to say no but not able to.
when it happens, you gotta pay attention to yourself.
What would you suggest to your best buddy if it happens to him?
Wednesday, October 30, 2019
Monday, October 28, 2019
Lunch
A: why are you so sad
B: I did something I regret
A: what?
B: I let my uncle pay for lunch
A: so what?
B: But he comes all the way from Europe
A: oh.. you're too sentimental
B: I just feel bad
A: gee, that's easy to resolve
B: oh... what can I do?
A: imaging that i am your uncle
B: but you're not
A: do you wanna resolve your issue or not? dude.. :)
B: yes...
A: ok.. follow what I say
B: ok (reluctantly)
A: I am willing to forgive
B: ok.. I am willing to forgive
A: (look at B in the eye)
You're forgiven
B: I am forgiven..
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Sometimes, a small thing can overwhelm some people.
The thing is that it is already in the past.
It's probably easy to say we just move forward.
It might be better if you find a solution that resolve this issue.
B: I did something I regret
A: what?
B: I let my uncle pay for lunch
A: so what?
B: But he comes all the way from Europe
A: oh.. you're too sentimental
B: I just feel bad
A: gee, that's easy to resolve
B: oh... what can I do?
A: imaging that i am your uncle
B: but you're not
A: do you wanna resolve your issue or not? dude.. :)
B: yes...
A: ok.. follow what I say
B: ok (reluctantly)
A: I am willing to forgive
B: ok.. I am willing to forgive
A: (look at B in the eye)
You're forgiven
B: I am forgiven..
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Sometimes, a small thing can overwhelm some people.
The thing is that it is already in the past.
It's probably easy to say we just move forward.
It might be better if you find a solution that resolve this issue.
Monday, October 21, 2019
Lion and bird
(Lion and bird)
Lion: My dear, I am the king of mountain
Bird: wow
(the bird looks at the lion with admiration)
Lion: When I roar, even the mountain tremble.
Bird: wow, you're the best
Lion: I like tiger and cheetah
Bird: why?
Lion: because they run fast
Bird: (look down..) yes, they do
Lion: I don't know what talent you have...
To be honest, I sometimes ignore you.
(At this moment, there's an earth quake... the ground starts to move.)
The bird slowly fly away ...)
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At lot of times, we pay lots of attention to people who are perfect.
Somehow we ignore ourselves.
Look at the mirror. Don't ignore the one in the mirror...
Lion: My dear, I am the king of mountain
Bird: wow
(the bird looks at the lion with admiration)
Lion: When I roar, even the mountain tremble.
Bird: wow, you're the best
Lion: I like tiger and cheetah
Bird: why?
Lion: because they run fast
Bird: (look down..) yes, they do
Lion: I don't know what talent you have...
To be honest, I sometimes ignore you.
(At this moment, there's an earth quake... the ground starts to move.)
The bird slowly fly away ...)
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At lot of times, we pay lots of attention to people who are perfect.
Somehow we ignore ourselves.
Look at the mirror. Don't ignore the one in the mirror...
Friday, October 18, 2019
Just like my Dad
(Dad and the kid)
Dad: Let's ride the bike
kid: I don't know... Dad... It's hard.
Dad: Let's give a try
kid: Oh, you gonna help me
Dad: Of courcse, I am always here
kid: (stare at Dad)
ok
(Kid fall down.. tear comes down from the cheek)
kid: It hurts.
Dad: Let me gea some medicine and a bandage.
I'll be very gentle.
(Kid looks at Dad)
Dad: It's ok. Just try again.
Kid: Gee. If Dad believe in me, then I can do it.
--
A lot of times, when we talked to ourselves.
We are the Dad. We encourage ourselves and pad our back.
Things sometimes can be like the pendulum. It can swing from
left to right. The important part is that we support ourselves
no matter what.. (Just like the Dad)
Dad: Let's ride the bike
kid: I don't know... Dad... It's hard.
Dad: Let's give a try
kid: Oh, you gonna help me
Dad: Of courcse, I am always here
kid: (stare at Dad)
ok
(Kid fall down.. tear comes down from the cheek)
kid: It hurts.
Dad: Let me gea some medicine and a bandage.
I'll be very gentle.
(Kid looks at Dad)
Dad: It's ok. Just try again.
Kid: Gee. If Dad believe in me, then I can do it.
--
A lot of times, when we talked to ourselves.
We are the Dad. We encourage ourselves and pad our back.
Things sometimes can be like the pendulum. It can swing from
left to right. The important part is that we support ourselves
no matter what.. (Just like the Dad)
Monday, October 14, 2019
Why are you smiling
A: Why are you smiling each day
B: Oh, that's easy
A: What are you talking about?
B: I learn it from a dancer
A: Tell me, tell me
B: You know how a dancer become perfect
A: Well, that's easy
They have talents
B: true.. (and ...)
A: What?
B: It's true that they have talent.
But they also try the same posture 100 times
so when they are on stage, their body already know the perfect posture
A: oh
how is that has anything to do with smiling
B: I am doing the same thing.
smiling in front of mirror 100 times a day
A: that's crazy
B: (smile)
A: I really like your smile
B: (smile)
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A lot of times, mirror is a great tool...
Try to use mirror wisely...
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Louise Hay's quote
I am beautiful
I am amazing
I am easy to love
You are beautiful
You are amazing
You are easy to love
B: Oh, that's easy
A: What are you talking about?
B: I learn it from a dancer
A: Tell me, tell me
B: You know how a dancer become perfect
A: Well, that's easy
They have talents
B: true.. (and ...)
A: What?
B: It's true that they have talent.
But they also try the same posture 100 times
so when they are on stage, their body already know the perfect posture
A: oh
how is that has anything to do with smiling
B: I am doing the same thing.
smiling in front of mirror 100 times a day
A: that's crazy
B: (smile)
A: I really like your smile
B: (smile)
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A lot of times, mirror is a great tool...
Try to use mirror wisely...
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Louise Hay's quote
I am beautiful
I am amazing
I am easy to love
You are beautiful
You are amazing
You are easy to love
Monday, October 7, 2019
Nothing
A: What are you doing?
B: nothing
A: oh
B: yep, nothing
A: (stare at B)
B: I enjoy doing nothing
A: (sigh..)
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A lot of times, we believe that it's important to be goal oriented (to set goal and accomplish things)
It's also important to enjoy doing things that you like.
A lot of times, we refer this as "nothing".
B: nothing
A: oh
B: yep, nothing
A: (stare at B)
B: I enjoy doing nothing
A: (sigh..)
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A lot of times, we believe that it's important to be goal oriented (to set goal and accomplish things)
It's also important to enjoy doing things that you like.
A lot of times, we refer this as "nothing".
Friday, October 4, 2019
Best Friend
A: I wanna to be an actor
B: why, no way
A: I wanna
B: I don't approve
A: crying
B: (feel guilt)
---
(A and C are best friends)
C: why are you down, dude.
A: because my Dad told me not to be an actor
C: how about take one tiny step
A: what do you mean
C: You know. If you wanna go for it.
Write a movie script or do something ..
A: oh
(smile)
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We'll have best friend.
When we have hard time, ask your best friend.
Your best friend can be yourself, too. :)
B: why, no way
A: I wanna
B: I don't approve
A: crying
B: (feel guilt)
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(A and C are best friends)
C: why are you down, dude.
A: because my Dad told me not to be an actor
C: how about take one tiny step
A: what do you mean
C: You know. If you wanna go for it.
Write a movie script or do something ..
A: oh
(smile)
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We'll have best friend.
When we have hard time, ask your best friend.
Your best friend can be yourself, too. :)
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