Classroom

(In a classroom where psychologist and parents get together)

parents:         What is the best way to encourage my kids.

psychologist: The best way is to encourage yourself.

parents:          (puzzled)
                       What?

psychologist:  When you are happy and feel good about yourself,
                       Whatever you do and whatever you say is encouraging.

parents:           oh..

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A lot of times, we believe that we want to discipline kids because we feel it's the best for them.
Sometimes, it's true but sometimes we have fears in ourselves.
(e.g. what is the best career to choose.)

The thing is when we are the happiest, we will be able to encourage kids in the most positive way.

just a thought

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May all parents have wonderful communication with our kids.